I finally bought a scale today. OMG...there was the ugly truth. I knew I was getting bigger. I gained about 6 lbs. I'm short so this is a lot. It must be due to all the fancy dinings with SDs and dates... I'm glad I got a scale finally. This will keep me from overeating or eating late at night. I will weigh myself every time I get a craving for sweets or anything bad. I'm not fat at all but I'm not skinny either. I like staying thin. If I have great sex after dinner every night, I can easily lose weight fast! But that's not the case...
I genuinely like CA SD and I miss him. He is flying in this weekend so I will see him on Monday or Tuesday next week probably. I must try to change his manners in bed. He needs to get better...at least I want him to be a little closer to being normal in bed. I'm not even asking for normal sex. Close to normal!! Less disgusting!! I may offend him but he doesn't have an option but try to change. His behaviors are not acceptable. I really don't know why and how he got to the way he is now. He is married and had many SBs on the side. The way he kisses and acts in bed are intolerable and can not be acceptable by any human beings. I really wonder how all the women before me were handling him.
LOL Honey I used to have an ex that was exactly like your CA SD. When we first started dating I was head over heels for the guy and he would go on about his amazing kissing skills but when we finally made out all he did was slobber all over me and lick my neck. I felt like i was making out with a freaking werewolf. It was disgusting. I figured he couldnt be as bad in bed as he was at kissing but I was wrong. Seriously he was no better at sex than he was at masturbating (and I'm being generous here).
ReplyDeleteI ended up telling him I had a fetish for being "in control" (which is untrue) and wanted to show him what got me off. I tied him to the bedpost (bondage is hard work, if youre thinking about doing it youtube how to tie a knot. Its harder than it looks) and was specific on how I kissed (I would do normal kissing and the second he started slobbering i pulled away. I kept doing that until he kissed me normally back and then I didnt pull away, a perfect case of classical conditioning). I did certain things in bed that *I* liked and sure, he forgot them later on but when we had sex the next time I would ask him to "do that thing I did to him in bed the other day". The key is being coy and sweet and the guy almost always wants to please you! If he forgets that "thing you did" then remind him. Thats the only way theyll learn and if your sticking with them on the long run then its worth teaching them how to satisfy you.
Ok, I'll stop with this LONG comment and I wish you luck on your next date!!
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haha, thanks Amelia! I don't think I want to tie him though..but I will be sweet and teach him how to kiss normally. I will improve him little by little!
ReplyDeleteLMAO @ Amelia! I know that's right hahaha. Yeah Georgina I definitely think its worth teaching him little by little. Also try an easy work out place for like 30 minutes a day! It will definitely help tone up and maintain your figure! :) I don't know about you, but I can't cut back on fine dining lol.
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