I hear from my SDs every 3 days or so. I always text or email them back right away, then it takes a few days for them to get back to me. I almost forget that I have sugar daddies..(They both gave me August allowance already so I don't need to worry about money for now). This is strange to me. With my former SD, we exchanged emails all day every day. Well we were more like bf and gf...we were crazy about each other and couldn't get enough of each other. I still hear from him but I don't respond back every time. If he can't see me anymore, what's the point? We had amazing 3 months together but I was focusing on our relationship too much. I was seriously considering to have a baby with him in the future. How crazy is that? He wanted to be with me for a long time and wanted another child. I really liked him.
My CA SD is coming back to town at the end of August. He wrote to me something so sweet; "My mind seems to drift off upon thoughts of you...the magic of the time we have together...your contageous energy..exciting yet comfortable...it's nice the way we share our dreams...it seems as if anything is possible". He is such a wonderful guy. I really like him. I will try my best to make him less gross in bed in the future. I'm so bad at teaching guys what to do in bed. I'm just too shy to comment or guide them if they are bad in bed.
CA SD also implies that he wants a child on the side since his wife can't have a baby. Having a baby with a SD is always an option for me. It sounds crazy but I just can't seem to find someone I want to marry. I date a lot but I don't want to marry any of the guys who want to marry me. I'm always attracted to the wrong guys...like N and Justin. I tried to convince N to have a baby with me one day for years but I gave up. Ideally of course I want to fall in love, get married and have children with the love of my life. But it may never happen. So having a baby with a sugar daddy is like my back up plan. At least my child and I will be financially taken care of forever.
I don't know when FL SD is coming to town next time. He is so busy travelling nonstop for his business. I'm not sure if he will be my stable and long-term SD. He doesn't express his feelings too much. I will send him another cute Ecard later.."thinking of you" or "just wanted to say hi" card. He liked it last time I sent him one :)
Oh wow you would have a baby with an SD!? I never even thought SDs would consider such a thing, but I guess if he can't have kids with his wife I could understand why'd he'd want one with you :) What do you tell the kid? Your daddy is my sugar daddy :P I had a kid in a church nursery tell me, "My mommy calls my daddy Sugar Daddy!" You're right, you and the child would always be well taken care of, but that's a lifetime commitment to share piece of your life with someone else. I'd think about that very carefully :) It would be great if you found a single SD who you fell for and you two got married…how romantic would that be! Keep showing FL SD that you think about him. Some guys don't show their feelings, but it doesn't mean they aren't there. I hope he sticks around for a while!
ReplyDeletewell I guess if I'm gonna be a single mom, I'm better off with a SD.. I could give up on marriage but never on baby. that's only if I don't meet anyone special for the next 2 years.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Dream, Georgina. I think you have to think very carefully. It's a BIG commitment and it can be tricky. The SD may want to back ot later on, but what happens with you and the baby? It could get messy, especially if he is married. I guess just wait a while before you make such an important decision. But whatever you do, be positive that's what you want :)
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Like I said, that's only a back up plan and an option for me in 2 years. not for now. I got 2 years to think about. He could never leave his child..he would never want me to come after him and his wife.. oh well that's not so realistic anyways..I'm still hoping to meet the love of my life and get married for real soon!
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