I have this friend I see about once a month. We have been friends for almost 10 years, I think. When we first met, he offered me financial help- well he tried to kiss me first, I refused, then he offered. So it was clear that he was implying sex. I agreed. I was much younger back then...I didn't think much of it...I guess he helped me through college financially. Whenever I had a boyfriend, I stopped sleeping with him. He was very understanding. So on and off for 10 years. We started at $200 per meeting 10 years ago, and now it's up to $500-$1000 per meeting (well if we have sex..sometimes we just have dinner). I never thought of him as a sugar daddy. He is a friend. I know his family and he knows my family. His wife and their son like me a lot too...nobody knows our little secret. So I guess I already had a SD, kind of, before entering the sugar world officially 6 months ago.
I'm seeing him tonight. Can it go on for another 10 years if I don't get married?? Hahaha we may have the longest arrangement in the sugar history!
How do you feel comfortable knowing his wife and child? I think people really undermine the pain cheating causes...
ReplyDeleteI do not mean to make you feel badly. I love reading your blog.
I don't think I'm ever comfortable with him in bed. I used to work for his company so I knew his family back then but since I quit, I never see them anymore.
ReplyDeleteI think I feel more guilty when I'm romantically involved with a married man..which happened only once with my former SD, Mr. D (there is no romance between Mel and I..he is old and kinda gross ). Mr. D and I fell for each other and we were crazy about each other. Even though I didn't know his wife, I felt her pain and I felt bad..because I had his heart. Ultimately he broke up with me because he did't want to lose his family.
Oh, he was your boss?
ReplyDeleteI remember Mr. D. That story almost made me cry.
So, how would you feel if Mr.D had another Sugar Baby today? Would you feel hurt?
Mr. D and I talked about it..he never want to cheat on his wife ever again, but if that ever changes, it will be me and nobody else. we believed we were perfect for each other.
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