Sunday, March 11, 2012

Fine SD and Fine Dining in NYC

I met a pot on Friday night.  We had a great time at W hotel lounge.  But I just sent him a nice good bye email.  He is such a nice person but I just can't find any attraction toward him.  Besides he gave me an impression that he was looking for a wife- something serious.  He had no problem with my monthly allowance, but he was talking about meeting my family and friends... He even asked me to get off SA.com and just be with him exclusively.  I feel bad but at least I dumped him very nicely.  I bet he was planning a wedding already in his head. 

I saw Mr. Long Island yesterday afternoon.  After he told me that he couldn't afford me anymore due to his business problems, we agreed on some allowance per date for now.  I wasn't sure about this but I decided to keep him around for a while, as long as I have free time for him.  I will not go out of my way to accomodate him- only if he fits my schedule.  We went to a nice Turkish restaurant for lunch.  It was a lovely place and we had a good time.  He is the most attractive, young and the nicest SD I've ever met actually.  I would date him for real.  He told me that he would leave his wife within 5 years most likely.  I thought about the possibilities...hard to say right now.  Sex was good too.  He made me cum- I almost never cum during intercourse!  We must be physically compatible.

As soon as Mr. Long Island left, I had to get ready for another date with a pot, Mr. K.  He picked me up in his fancy car and drove us to Chelsea.  We had dinner at the Maritime hotel.  Such a beautiful restaurant!  Food and cocktails were amazing.  I love fine dining in NYC.  Mr. K was lovely- nice and sweet.  He has a boat and he can fly airplanes too.  Now he sounds like a good SD material.  He told me he was fine with my monthly allowance.  As I had told him, I had plans with my girlfriends afterwords so he drove me to another lounge where I was meeting them.  He gave me a good night kiss when he dropped me off...it was soft and sweet and I liked it, but I was desparately hoping that my friends wouldn't arrive at that moment.  What would I tell them?   He said he was 50 but he looked like he was at least 55!  Luckily, I was the first one to arrive there.



I don't want to jump the gun again, but I think Mr. K will be my main SD.  We will get together again either on Tuesday or Friday.  I can't wait.  I hope he is good in bed.

Zoosk.com fucking sucks!!  Guys on that site are all ugly and poor...it seems like... Wow what a difference from any other sugar dating sites where guys are better looking and far more successful.  Does that mean all the good ones are married?  I better get off that site immediately.

5 comments:

  1. Must be nice to be turning money down hahaha. I am glad things are happening so quickly for you!

    I just went to Zoosk.com as per your recommendation. Um. Cheezy. hahaha. Perhaps Craigslist. Genuine hopeless romantics on there.

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  2. so far Mr. K seems great but I can't relax until I get my monthly allowance!
    Zoosk is horrible...I cancelled my membership after a few days..

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  3. I really hope things work out with you and Mr. K - he sounds so sweet! That first pot you mentioned in this post must've been really serious (about wanting to take your relation further than sugar dating) - refusing allowance and parting ways after the first meet, it gives me the idea that he was really looking to legitimately date you! As long as you made a decision you are happy with :)

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  4. I don't regret turning down that pot...no amount of money could make me to date someone I'm not comfortable with...

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  5. I agree with you. Money isn't everything...but it's damn sure important....LOL
    You have to be comfortable and compatible with any POTS. your meet.

    If not let him go...so that he's able to find someone who wants the samething that you do.

    You'll find exactly what your looking for :)

    Thank you for sharing!

    SMOOCHIES***

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