Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Definition Of Rich

Mr. G and I had dinner in Little Italy after work today.  Now that I have Mr. K as my main SD with a full monthly allowance, Mr. G is my second SD.  Originally it was supposed to be once-a-month arrangement with Mr. G, but we usually meet more than once a month for a movie or dinner date, which I don't mind.  He will come over to my place next weekend.  He will also bring me the books I want.  He is like a good friend...and he is so sweet and drama free.

Ron texted me after MIA for 13 days.  I know he is very busy with work and taking care of his sick mother.  Not sure what to do with him but not ready to let him go either.  I still have the feeling that he might be the one for me so I don't want to make any decision I may regret later until I'm sure of everything.  I just don't think I will ever love someone more than I love Ron (or N).  Sigh.

I looked at Mr. K's profile again.  His income says $250k-$300k.  If that's true, he is not that rich!!  He gave me the impression that he made around or over $1M.  He has 4 kids and 2 ex wives.  5 cars and a boat.  So he must have a lot of expenses then.  Hmm.  I know he has no problem with my monthly allowance but now I keep thinking he is not that rich...not rich enough for me to consider a future with him.  But he does act very rich...  I know I shouldn't care how much he has or makes as long as he can afford me, but I know he is hoping to have a real future with me, so that's why I'm thinking way ahead and just can't help but wonder!

2 comments:

  1. Wow he has a lot on his plates! I think with the income he make he should be able to live a comfortable life but not as comfortable as he seem to be getting. 2 wives? is he paying alimony? 4 kids..college and everything else unless they're grown up already. Maybe some guys down play their income on the site, but if he's able to provide your allowance, don't sweat what he make or what he doesn't make :)

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  2. I have to agree with Lisa 1000%. I have dated guys who were considered "rich" and they didnt share their $$$ with me (well not enough of it) but I've dated guys who make way less and they shared all they had with me. So my point is that as long as he isn't living out of his means & you won't be broke one day if you marry him and he shares everything completely with you and your able to stach some mad money (your secret account) then your fine.
    But if he has alimony and child support...then just keep him as a S.D. and try not to grow feelings for him..he has a lot of people eating out of his pot...lol

    Now I feel bad about Ron. Keep him close but try not to invest anymore feelings into him. I mean how hard is it to send a text/email/phone call.... to let you know what's going on. I think regardless that is unexceptable.
    But, I hope that his sick mom is ok.
    If you are able to be there for him at this time of need...he will never forget it :)

    O, Im happy you have a regular S.D. & a part-time one

    Get that money GIRL ...HAHA

    Thank you for sharing :)

    SMOOCHIES***

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