Saturday, February 25, 2012

New SD From AM

I woke up feeling nervous this morning, thinking about my first date with Mr. Long Island.  I knew we would hit if off but I was concerned about his age.  I usually don't date anyone under 40 both in real life and in sugar life.  Guys in their 20's and 30's are simply too immature for me and I'm not attracted to them.  I couldn't get out of bed for a while just thinking about him.  Although, my success rate with pots has been pretty high- the last time I met pots was back in December and they both became my SDs (Mr. B and Mr. G).  I always discuss in details and have them agreed to my terms prior to meeting them for the first time.  I hate wasting time.  I always make sure we agree on allowance amount, and also I need to know that they are ready to start an arrangement right away.  I don't like meeting guys who want to take time dating, get to know each other well first, then see how it goes.  Yeah right, I don't think so.  They just want to date/fuck for free for as long as possible.  I don't like newbies especially.  If they are not sure about arrangement and not comfortable giving out cash allowance, usually they never will be ok with it, in my experience.

I met him at a restaurant right by my place.  He looked just like the photos he sent me, but he actually looked older; at least 40 years old.  He seemed mature too so I was relieved.
He was really sweet and charming.  Likable and nice.  Cute, tall and sexy.  He surprised me by giving me cash allowance we agreed on before we even ordered our drinks!  Wow.  A great sign.  We didn't even talk that much yet!  Food was great and we ordered lots of drinks even though it was still early (we met at noon).  Since we work in the same business (only he is very successful and I'm not. lol), we couldn't stop talking about work.  We also went to the same college so it didn't feel like I was on a sugar date...it felt like I was on a real date, except that he is married.  We hit it off quickly and it was all very natural- we felt like we had known each other for a while.  So I was comfortable enough to invite him over to my place after our 2 hour long lunch.  And so our arrangement began.

He was a great kisser- better than any other SDs I've had or have currently.  Sex was good but short- he apologized for cumming so fast because he hadn't had sex in so long....hahaha so cute.
Because of our schedules, most likely he can see me on Saturdays only, but that's kinda a problem for me.  My other side SDs, Mr.G and Jason can come over to my place only on Saturdays too (except for quick drink dates near my work during the week here and there).  Since none of them is available at night and I'm not available during the daytime anymore, they will have to try to see me on Sundays sometimes. Now Mr. Long Island will be my main SD, so I will see him every week.  I see Jason once a month only.  Mr. G is in between...2-3 times a month.  Well I will figure out something.

I feel like drinking red wine now and that's what I'm going to do with a friend tonight.

7 comments:

  1. He sounds great! Especially giving you the sugar before you guys get to talking is always a good sign :). I'm the same way with pots, I don't like the whole dating thing and discussing an allowance after a few dates. I like discussing it before meeting it saves us time.

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    1. yeah it was nice like he had no doubt about me :)

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  2. I enjoyed reading this post. I've been tweeking my approach to the allowance discussion. The problem I have is that we will discuss allowance agree to allowance go on date and these men seem to have amnesia. It's so aggravating.
    So could you tell me how your conversation goes? Thank you I would appreciate it :)

    I agree that 20's and 30's shit even (40's, ex fiance) can be very imature. I was loooking at my boyfriend last night rolling my eyes thinking to myself you are so childish..lol

    I love when they apologize...lol

    Im happy that it worked out for you.

    Get that Sugar Girl! lol

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    1. that has happened to me also a couple times- we agreed on allowance before meeting up, but then they seemd to have no memory of agreeing to the terms. I sometimes mention to pots that some guys have used me and never gave me any allowance after dating them for a month even though they have agreed to the allowance at first.(not true story) so I explain that I'm deeply hurt and feel used so I don't want that to happen to me again. After telling those stories, nobody will take advantage of you :)

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  3. Georgina,

    Thank you for the advice. I'm going to try that...I think it will work for me also. I'll let you know how it works out. I have another round of "Sugary Speed Dating" this week...lol

    SMOOCHIES***

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    1. Caramell, "sugary Speed dating", what's that all about?

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  4. That's so awesome, so happy for you!! BTW nice advice you gave Caramell, I will have to try something like that.

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