How To Orgasm

I met DK SD for lunch yesterday.  It was such a lovely day with nice weather so we had some take-out food in a park in Midtown. My first impression of him from the last time wasn't really good- somewhat inconsiderate and cheap- but this time I found a way to find him adorable and likable.  We were really comfortable and felt closer to each other.  We both agreed that it was great to get together one more time before spending night together for the first time.  Now we felt ready for it.  He reserved a hotel room in the city for us tomorrow night.  We will go out first- dinner and maybe shopping!  I'm looking forward to it!  I have a feeling that it gets better and better every time I see him.

Later on N invited me over to his office.  I jumped on his invitation because I was going out of my mind with his absence for a while.  I was dressed super cute and wanted to show off.  I was so excited I got there half hour early....and turned out he was stuck with business problems uptown and running late.  It was so unusual since we are always right on time. I decided to wait for him at a bar around the corner and I didn't mind doing so last night.  I had lots of work done earlier so I had a night off and wasn't in a hurry.  Maybe it was the cute outfit that kept me in a good mood.  How often do I get to sit at a bar alone in SoHo?  Never.  I ordered a glass of Pinot Grigio.  I watched people around me.  They gave me a look that said "what's her story?".
Eventually N came back.  He asked if I was drinking because he could smell alcohol on my breath.  He hates alcohol.  I only had one drink and wasn't drunk at all, but I was annoyed by his question and got in a bad mood...and couldn't get out of if for a while.  He assumed I was upset because he made me wait for one hour.  No.  I was annoyed by his attitude...I can be sensitive and complicated around him.  We talked for a bit on his couch.  Awards.  TV shows.  Good for him.  He got naked.  So did I.  I was confirmed that sex is better on his couch than my bed.  It just feels better when he is inside of me. I told him that fact for the first time, and he said he was trying to make me cum.  I rarely orgasm during intercourse.  But on his couch, I often almost orgasm but he pauses every time I'm close!  He says that's because he is cumming and he doesn't want to finish yet.  But because he repeats doing it, I lose my orgasm...  I'm cumming, he stops.  He resumes.  I'm cumming again, he stops.  I lose it.  It's gone.  He should just cum without taking a break for once then maybe we can cum together.  We should definately try that one day.