Monday, July 4, 2011

Is Marriage A Long Term Arrangement?

So I had dinner with a potential SD, Mr. G last night.  I had better time with him this time.  He picked a great restaurant and we talked a lot- we connected more.  On his profile, he says he is 49, but he is at least 54 or so.... He is definately the most decent and refined guy from SA so far.  He thinks my previous SD, Mr. D and I will get back together eventually, so he said he will only have a couple of months with me. He didn't seem to mind- maybe he is looking for a short term fun.  After dinner, he drove me home so I invited him in for a bit.. We were sitting on the couch and he asked if he could kiss me.  I smiled and said yes.  While we were making out, he had his hand under my dress and I knew he was reaching for my panties so I had to tell him that I was on my period..hahaha.  He stopped touching me but he looked frustrated so I gave him a bj..I didn't want to work that hard so I stopped blowing him after a while.  He might be a lot of work.  That's why I don't really like guys over 50..they don't cum easily.  We didn't discuss money.  I didn't want to push it because I made it clear on what exactly I was looking for last time, and I remembered that he was complaining that most girls from SA were call girls so I didn't want to give him the impression that I was one of them.  We decided to go to this hot restaurant on Wednesday.  We actually came up with a list of all the restaurants we want to go together and also talked about taking a trip to Miami where he owns a condo.  That's all great but he needs to know that this is an arrangement and he really needs to start giving me allowance already!!!  So I texted him today: "Let's do 9 pm on Wednesday. And please think about monthly allowance".  6 hours later he reponded: "Happy 4th of July. See you on Wednesday".  He didn't mention money. I really don't want to keep asking for money. He should be a gentleman and offer me something on Wednesday without having me asking for it again.  He has never done this before so I know that he is a little (or very) uncomfortable with the idea of giving cash to a girl he is dating but he needs to get over it if he wants to keep seeing me!!

I'm still talking to many other pot SDs and I'm really getting confused who is who..
I got this email from one of them today: "This is what I'm looking for as of right now.  A 2 weeks arrangement 3-4 days a week. I will spoil the shit out of you and provide whatever allowance you request".  Hmmmm spoil the shit out of me??  What the fuck does that mean?  3-4 nights a week??  I don't have that kind of time especially right now!!  I'm meeting a few pot SDs a week right now.  I asked this guy for his photos and he ignored it both times.  I guess I could try him if nothing works out this week.

I'm so tired of looking for a sugar daddy constantly..I keep telling myself that it's only temporary until my business takes off.  Even if I find a good one again, who knows when it ends. This is the 3rd time I'm trying SA website. I was thinking to myself today, maybe I should just marry a millionaire for now. A couple of years.  I can have a stable life without worrying about money.  It's not like I can afford to date someone for real right now!  What's better? Many short term arrangements with many guys or a long term arrangement -marriage- with one guy?

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