Sugary Shopping With My Sugar Daddy

Mr. P and I met up at an Irish pub next to the hotel he was staying.  We had planned to go shopping before dinner; but he was already starving and looked really tired...so I knew I had to shop fast.  We took a cab to Bloomingdale's and started at sunglasses section on the first floor.  After I tried several pairs, I picked a pair from Christian Dior.  So beautiful.  I'm ready for a vacay :-)

Then off to the shoe section on the 2nd floor.  I was looking for a specific style but I couldn't find any...but I settled for a gorgeous pair of Michael Kors.  I can't wait to show off my new shoes!

Mr. P looked really bored and tired, sitting down.  I knew we didn't have much time left....we went to look for dresses.  I tried one petite size dress.  It was way too big on me.  I figured I didn't have time to try all the dresses, so I decided to get something easy to pick yet expensive.  A handbag.  On the way to Louis Vuitton, I saw a super gorgeous shoulder bag that matched the shoes we just got, but I was looking for something smaller...I knew he wasn't generous enough to buy me both.  It was only our 3rd date after all.  Then I found a perfect bag.  Verona PM.  $1,425 after tax....was he surprised when he heard the total price?  Not sure.  Every time I picked out something, we never looked at the price tag.  Lol.

He spent around $1800 on me at Bloomingdale's.  Hopefully more to come in the future.  Then he took me to a fancy hotel bar where they charge $24 for a cocktail!  I think it was the most expensive bar I had ever been to.

The best part of the date was that we DIDN'T HAVE SEX.  We didn't even make out.  As he was hinting for a while (actually he was becoming more direct recently about his fetish), he is very much into "tease and denial" thing.  I teased and hit him all night with my riding crop.  Nothing more.  I wasn't even naked.  He never touched me.

Tease and denial (also called "orgasm denial" or "T&D") is any technique that involves the sexual stimulation of a person to cause intense arousal without climax. It is usually practiced for the express purpose of creating powerful feelings of sexual frustration and pleasure in the person being stimulated by singly or repeatedly bringing the subject to the brink of orgasm without actually causing orgasm.

Bringing someone to the "edge" (or brink) of orgasm is called "edging". Edging in addition to prolonged sexual excitement or stimulation will frequently produce pre-ejaculate or "precum", which is often used as lube during the edging process. This can be seen as a sign that effective teasing of the male has been applied. Blue balls is another signal that teasing and effective denying has taken place (from wikipedia).

I was so relieved.  I really really didn't want to cheat on Sean (even though we are not officially couple yet).  If it's gonna be this way, I can keep seeing Mr. P without feeling guilty.

The worst part of the date was that I didn't get any cash allowance.  I know he spent on shopping way more than what we had agreed on our once-a-month arrangement allowance, but I really needed that cash...I can't pay rent with my designer shoes....

After he left super early in the morning (5:40AM!), I ordered an expensive room service.  $60 for breakfast!  Well he didn't give me my allowance so I wanted to get the most out of my overnight date.  Then I carried all the designer goods to work.